November 13, 2016 (Proverbs 17:6)

“Children’s children are the crown of old men, and the glory of children is their father” (Prov 17:6). One of the greatest delights of those blessed with many years is the enjoyment of grandchildren if not great-grandchildren in many instances. For generations past, this has certainly been true. Increasingly with less family stability, rampant divorce, and the common birth of children out of wedlock, the endearment provided by grandchildren has become less significant unfortunately. And the latter part of this proverb is likewise not as commonplace as previously the case. Indeed the opposite is frequently true, many parents trying to find their identity and sense of accomplishment in the performance of children rather than children taking pride in their parents. This reversal, so to speak, often finds itself explained by the failure of parents when it comes to Christian upbringing of children. Parents are to be examples of godly life and conduct, showing more concern for children than for their jobs, professions, and other activities outside the home. It is the family, not the church or school, that bears primary responsibility for upbringing that prepares the children for lives pleasing to God. When the hearts of fathers are not turned toward the hearts of children, instilling in them an awareness of God’s attitude toward sin as well as protecting them from ungodly influences by example, it is hardly surprising that one is faced with disobedience and rebellion as a child grows older. Loss of respect for parents is a biblical sign warned about in these latter days, the glory of children no longer being their father (or parents). There are serious consequences when parents do not model Christ as a pattern for life in the home, lest one think otherwise. An old saying that fruit does not fall far from the tree is so often observed, whether for good or bad.